Stop trying to fix the problem.

Start understanding the need beneath it.

 
 
 
 

Learn to uncover the unmet emotional needs keeping you or your clients stuck

Introducing a practical training that shows you how to use simple self-enquiry and Kinesiology processes to address the emotional needs underlying stuck patterns, self-sabotage and unwanted behaviours.

3 WEEK COURSE: BEGINS 29TH OCTOBER

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What if the behaviour, stress or pattern you’re trying to change isn’t the real problem?

You can know exactly what you want to change but you still find yourself:

  • repeating the same unhelpful behaviours

  • overworking, over-giving and over-thinking everything

  • paralysed by indecision

  • trapped in perfectionism or procrastination

  • feeling stressed, frustrated or overwhelmed

  • sabotaging something you genuinely want

  • stuck in a pattern you can't seem to shift

And the more you try to fix, control or stop the behaviour, the more you feel stuck. 🤯

What if, you stropped trying to “get rid” of your sabotaging behaviour and started asking how it is trying to help you?

Underneath many unwanted behaviours and patterns is an emotional need, one that may be unrecognised, neglected, disowned, conflicted or attached to a particular condition.

This course will teach you how to recognise what's underneath the presenting problem and work with the need rather than simply trying to fix the behaviour.

 
 

What You’ll Learn…

 

Across three practical modules, you'll learn three complementary processes for working with emotional needs.

 
 
 

#1: THE NEED BENEATH THE PROBLEM

Understanding Emotional Needs, Disowned Energy & Self-Sabotage

This week invites you work with the foundational premise: every unwanted behaviour you are trying to change is underpinned by an emotional need. Change isn’t possible until you identify, understand and respond to your emotional needs in a healthy way.

In this session you will:

  • Understand how emotional needs influence behaviour, choices and stuck patterns

  • Explore the five core needs: Safety, Love, Power, Freedom and Joy

  • Recognise when a need is neglected, disowned or hidden beneath self-sabotage

  • Distinguish the underlying need from the strategy being used to meet it

  • Use body signals, self-enquiry and kinesiology to identify what may be driving the pattern

  • Apply a practical process for responding to the need in a healthier, more conscious way

 
 
 

#2: WORKING WITH CONFLICTING NEEDS

The Pendulum: From Inner Conflict to Choice

Sometimes you’re not stuck because you lack clarity or don’t know what you want - you’re stuck because different needs are pulling you in opposite directions.

In this session you will:

  • Understand how conflicting needs can create an internal stalemate

  • Recognise why you can genuinely want something while simultaneously resisting it

  • Explore how each side of the conflict may be trying to meet a legitimate emotional need

  • Identify the purpose, payoff, fear and need behind each position

  • See how forcing a choice can keep you stuck or cause the pendulum to swing

  • Use the Pendulum Process to create greater understanding, compassion and choice

 

#3: WORKING WITH CONDITIONAL NEEDS

Conditional Release: From Attachment to Empowerment

Having needs isn’t the problem. The struggle often begins when those needs become tied to how, when or through whom they must be met.

In this session you will:

  • Explore how emotional needs can become attached to particular people, outcomes or circumstances

  • Distinguish between having a need and making something outside you responsible for meeting it

  • Understand how conditions can create fear, dependency and stuck patterns

  • Recognise the link between attachment, self-sabotage and unwanted behaviours

  • Apply the Conditional Release process to identify and release conditions attached to a need

  • Move towards greater self-responsibility, freedom and choice while still allowing healthy support

 
 
 

How the Course Works…

This is a practical, experiential training. You’ll learn each process, experience it with one of your own real-life patterns, reflect on what happened, watch how it can be facilitated with a client, and then practice using it yourself.

This means you won’t simply leave with information. You’ll understand the processes from the inside, so you can apply them with greater clarity, confidence and compassion in your client work.

 
 

WHAT YOU MAY EXPERIENCE PERSONALLY:

As you work with your own patterns, you may begin to:

  • understand why a behaviour, pattern or inner conflict has been hard to shift

  • recognise the emotional needs underneath your own responses

  • feel more compassion for the parts of you that have been trying to cope, protect or get something important met

  • notice when different needs are pulling you in opposite directions

  • loosen attachment to particular people, outcomes or circumstances

  • find healthier ways to respond to what you need, without believing you have to do everything alone

WHAT YOU’LL DEVELOP PROFESSIONALLY:

Professionally, you’ll develop the ability to:

  • see beneath the presenting problem and recognise behaviours as possible expressions of underlying emotional needs

  • identify needs that may be neglected, disowned, conflicted or conditional

  • distinguish the need itself from the strategy being used to meet it

  • use self-enquiry and kinesiology where appropriate to investigate what may be driving the pattern

  • apply the AAA Model, Pendulum Process and Conditional Release with greater confidence

  • ask clearer questions that support curiosity, compassion and choice rather than rushing to fix

WHAT YOU’LL LEAVE WITH:

  • a new lens for understanding stress, self-sabotage and stuck patterns

  • three practical processes for working with emotional needs

  • a questioning framework for exploring what sits beneath the presenting problem

  • greater self-understanding from experiencing the work yourself

  • greater confidence bringing the processes into your practice with clients

 

WORKING WITH EMOTIONAL NEEDS
A$188.00
One time
A$94.00
For 2 months
 

Who this is for…

 

This course is for practitioners and emerging practitioners who want a practical way to work beneath the presenting problem.

You may already have tools, techniques and training, but want more confidence identifying the emotional needs, inner conflicts or attachments that may be keeping a client stuck.

This training gives you three clear processes you can experience personally, understand from the inside and then apply within your professional scope.

This course is for:

  • Kinesiologists

  • Kinesiology students and emerging practitioners

  • Complementary, holistic and wellbeing coaches and practitioners

  • Practitioners who use self-enquiry and want practical processes for working with emotional needs

  • Practitioners who want a more compassionate, investigative approach to behaviour, stress and stuck patterns

KINESIOLOGY + SELF-ENQUIRY:

Kinesiology and self-enquiry are two complementary ways into this work. You can use either pathway, or both, depending on your training, scope and preferred way of working.

If you use kinesiology.

If you use kinesiology, you’ll learn where testing can support the process by helping identify or prioritise needs, explore conflict and navigate what needs attention. This is not a course on how to muscle test; it focuses on how to work with the information once you have it.

If you don't use kinesiology.

If you don’t use kinesiology, you can still participate fully. The processes can be explored through self-enquiry, reflection and skilled questioning, so you do not need to be a kinesiologist to learn and apply the framework.

 
 

About Your Teacher…

Belinda Morris

Hello, I’m Belinda Morris, founder of Essence Radiance.

Many years ago, I was on a particular path (which looked more like a treadmill!) until a health crisis bumped me off it completely. With that health crisis came the realisation of just how out of touch I had become with my own body.

My road back to health was an enlightening process, revealing all the creative ways I had neglected myself and my needs. I had to dismantle the ingrained habits of people-pleasing, perfectionism and poor boundaries.

Changing a behaviour is rarely as simple as deciding to stop doing it. There is often something underneath the behaviour - a need, a fear, a conflict or an attachment - that needs to be understood before real change becomes possible. This insight has shaped the way I work personally and professionally: with less judgement, more curiosity, and a deeper respect for the adaptive patterns that lie beneath our presenting problems.

As a Holistic Kinesiologist, Qigong Teacher and Mind Detox Practitioner, with a corporate background in Organisational Change, I bring together body awareness, kinesiology, self-enquiry and practical processes for understanding the true drivers of our stress, self-sabotage and stuck patterns.

Working with Emotional Needs brings together much of what I have learned through my own journey and almost two decades of working with clients and practitioners.

At the heart of this training is a simple shift: rather than trying to fix the behaviour, become curious about the need underneath it.

 

COURSE DETAILS

 
 

This is the first pilot of Working with Emotional Needs.

I’m keeping the training practical, focused and experiential so you can learn the core framework, work with the three processes and practice applying them. Your experience and feedback will help shape future versions of the course.

COURSE DETAILS:

Time: 7:30pm - 9pm

Dates: Thursday 29th October, 5th & 12th November

Location: Online (Zoom)

Investment: Intro Price $188

Includes:

  • 3 x 90 minute sessions

  • Session Recordings (ongoing access)

  • Workbooks & Charts

Want to know something else that I’ve not mentioned here? You can email me or give me a call to have a chat! I’m happy to discuss if the course is right for you.

Ph: 0414 937 583 Email: belinda@essenceradiance.com

BOOK NOW:

WORKING WITH EMOTIONAL NEEDS
A$188.00
One time
A$94.00
For 2 months
 
 
 
 
 

TERMS & CONDITIONS

DESCRIPTION OF SERVICES: This course includes Kinesiology muscle-testing techniques and Energy Medicine practices. This does not involve the diagnosis or treatment of mental or general disorders and is not to be used as a substitute for professional medical advice. It is the Client’s exclusive responsibility to seek such independent professional guidance as needed. 
CANCELLATIONS & REFUNDS: Due to the nature of this training where my preparation work begins as soon as a booking is made, no-shows and cancellations made within 7 days prior to the commencement of the course will incur a cancellation fee of the full cost of the course. Discretion may be exercised depending on circumstances. 
Any cancellations made prior to the 7 days before course commencement are eligible for a 50% refund or the booking can be transferred to another course or service. 
Refunds for services rendered will not be provided after the conclusion of a course. A request for a refund given during the course will be honoured. 
There is a minimum number of participants required to deliver this course. The course will be confirmed via email 9 days prior to the course commencement. It is advisable to consider this when booking accommodation. 
In the event that the minimum participant number is not reached you will have the option to transfer to another course or service without penalty or elect to receive a full refund.
CODE OF CONDUCT: My services and all information (documented or verbal) shared with participants, is bound by the principles set forth in the Australian Kinesiology Association (AKA) Code of Conduct and Code of Ethics which can be found here: https://aka.asn.au/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AKA-Code-of-Conduct-v2-15-Sept.pdf 
https://aka.asn.au/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Code-of-Ethics.pdf

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