Can you relate?

 
 

YOU DOUBT YOURSELF…

  • You lack confidence in yourself and your abilities

  • You second-guess yourself, questioning your competence or authenticity

  • You compare yourself to others constantly, feeling behind, unoriginal, or invisible

  • You fear that if you truly express yourself, you’ll be misunderstood, judged, or rejected

  • You suffer from imposter syndrome, never feeling like you know enough, or that you’re ‘qualified’ enough

 
 

 
 

YOU DISMISS YOURSELF…

  • You often find yourself shrinking to blend in

  • You can’t shake your persistent negative self-talk

  • You have trouble receiving positive feedback or accepting compliments

  • You easily give your power away to authority figures, looking for their approval or validation

  • You have difficulty acknowledging your talents and achievements

  • You have played small for years, afraid to take up space or be seen as “too much”

  • You downplay your natural strengths, because it feels “too easy” — and you assume they’re not valuable to others

  • You’ve received subtle lifelong messages from family, culture, or society that it's safer to stay quiet and out of the spotlight

 

 
 

YOU SABOTAGE YOURSELF

  • You want to achieve your goals but are easily distracted or sidetracked

  • You tend to wait for approval before acting and often turn to procrastination or avoidance

  • You feel stuck, trapped in indecision, and unsure how to move forward

  • You constantly feel like something is holding you back from opportunities and expansion

  • You experience an underlying anxiety about fully expressing yourself, an unconscious fear of persecution, ostracision, or punishment

  • You fear that you’ll lose control, burn out or leave others behind if you change, grow or fully express yourself 

 
 

 
 

YOU’RE IN A STALEMATE WITH YOURSELF

  • You have a fear of being seen (visible) and a fear of being overlooked (invisible)

  • You worry about being “too much” but also “not enough”

  • You feel like you put in way too much effort for little reward

  • You can achieve a lot but still feel empty

  • You feel a strong calling to live your destiny, but somehow also feel blocked from doing it

  • You try really hard, but it never seems to get easier