Self-Care

Why Hyper-Independence is Such a Hard Habit to Break

Why Hyper-Independence is Such a Hard Habit to Break

Why hyper-independence is such a hard habit to break

You’re hardwired to avoid the hell of helplessness. If you truly want to stop doing it all yourself, if you want to let in more love and support, if you want more help, you’re going to have to let go of your need for total control and get comfortable with the chaos of feeling helpless. Your need for control is not a psychological pathology, it’s a genius coping mechanism. Releasing control is legitimately difficult because it is a THREAT to both your SAFETY and your SUPERPOWERS.

When your Self-Care Scares You...

When your Self-Care Scares You...

Why self-care is overwhelming…

Your self-care is simple. Caring for everybody else to the point you become disconnected from yourselfis hard. Overcoming any symptom…your exhaustion, your stress, your hormonal imbalance, your allergies your insomnia…none of it can be addressed without making an adjustment to the way you care for yourself. Breaking down resistance to self-care is the key to your health and healing. Just don’t expect it to be easy.